I moved to San Diego in 2009, about two years after the Grand Del Mar opened its doors. Back then, I was just starting my writing career while learning about this new city, exploring its beaches, discovering that tacos are a lifestyle more than just a meal, and finding that casual was the name of the game when it came to fashion.
Even back then, though, the Grand was on everyone’s lips. Tucked away in the Los Peñasquitos Canyon Preserve, it showed up during a time when modern-minimalism was taking center stage in hotel design. Instead of leaning into ever-shifting trends, though, the property’s aesthetic leaned more “old money”—quiet, classy, understated. It was warm when the industry was going cool.
The first time I stayed at the property, I remember feeling like an imposter of the best kind. The bathroom featured a soaking tub with a voyeuristic window above it opening up into the bedroom—I’d never seen anything like it. My patio overlooked lush green gardens and foliage (a rarity in many parts of San Diego). I spent the mornings wrapped in the room’s plush robe, drinking coffee in the sun and wondering if the other guests also felt lucky to be there.
When I eventually landed a full-time writing gig, travel became my beat. One year, I was invited to Addison, the resort’s now three-Michelin-starred restaurant, during the holiday season to enjoy a meal by chef William Bradley. At the time, it was already considered one of the best restaurants in the county, though its stars were a few years away. Through 10 courses, I savored every bite and spoke with the chef about his process, feeling more at home than I did just a couple of years earlier.
It’s been 16 years since moving to San Diego, and writing about four- and five-star hotels has become as natural to me as telling visitors where to go for the most flavorful birria (Ed Fernandez Restaurant Birrieria, Tuétano Taqueria). One thing has remained the same, though: The Fairmont Grand Del Mar (rebranded in 2015) is still the “it” hotel.
Under its new brand, the property leans in even more to its Mediterranean aesthetics which previously featured Addison Mizner–inspired takes on Spanish and Italian palazzos. Its updated look boasts pops of deep burgundy and gold accents paired with detailed rococo and neo-baroque furnishings. You could almost imagine you’re somewhere along the French Riviera.
Recently, I needed a quick weekend staycation, so I returned to the Grand, but this time, I brought over a decade of real-life experience in the luxury travel world and a masthead title showcasing a new milestone in my career.
Last May, the hotel also underwent its own turning point: A multimillion revamp which included renovations to its pool areas and clubhouse. The spa got a redesign with improvements to its treatment rooms and relaxation areas.
The latter was the main reason for my stay—a wellness escape to unwind and reset before a few big events hit my calendar.
The 60-minute Contrast Therapy treatment utilizes alternating hot and cold water applications after a deep-tissue massage to help improve circulation and reduce inflammation. Wanting to try something new, I booked the experience. Inside the room, a massage table sat in a large, bathroom-like space with drains on the flooring and a vichy shower hanging above the table.
Instead of reclining on a heated massage table under blankets, guests lie flat on a plastic surface dressed with towels. Once the full-body massage is complete, your therapist places a single towel around your glutes before spraying warm water down across the length of your body. Quick bursts of cold water follow, and the therapist interchanges between heat and cool until the treatment is complete.
I left the treatment room wet and a little chilly, a reminder that I am very temperature-averse—for that reason, I’m not sure I’d try it again. But if your weekly workout routine includes a few cold plunges along the way, you should check it out, especially if you’re looking to reduce any muscle soreness.
Of course, spa treatments are just part of the wellness experience at the resort. Across its 400 acres, the Fairmont Grand Del Mar also features a Tom Fazio–designed championship golf course; four pools, including an adults-only area; an equestrian center; and five dining concepts, Addison among them. Whether playing 18 holes or enjoying farm-to-table dishes is your type of mind-body reset, there are plenty of ways to let yourself relax here.
As dinner time neared, I headed to Amaya. Executive chef Bryn McArthur arrived at the restaurant with 23 years of experience in 2017. He worked his way up the ranks to nab his current position in 2021. His menu features California cuisine highlighting local produce from the region’s farms, including J.R. Organics, Sage Hill Ranch Gardens, and Weiser Family Farms.
The must-get dish? The steak tartare starter—it’s served with creamy avocado, beef tallow dressing, and salsa macha; garnished with chive blossom and fresh chives; and dished up alongside country bread.
“Our inspiration for this dish was our sous chef, Rudy Diaz, and his salsa macha. The salsa macha is a kitchen favorite during family meals,” McArthur says. “When developing a classic French dish like steak tartare, we began experimenting with salsa macha as both a texture and flavor pop. The avocado balanced the dish and created a color contrast that we loved.”
The team masters this dish, possibly taking the top spot for the best I’ve had during my travels. Over a decade of checking out hotel restaurants, one thing you learn is that not all properties will put as much care into their dining concepts as they do their rooms and amenities. But here, the food is just as much of a consideration as any other part of the resort.
As the trip ended that weekend, I reflected on my time at the hotel and found that being at the Fairmont Grand Del Mar felt like home, a reminder of how far I’ve come since those early days as a fledgling journalist. We’ve evolved together—both new to the area back then and hoping that the city would embrace us as we found our path.
