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Archive DECEMBER 12, 2018

Family Politics Unfold Backward in Time in ‘The Year to Come’

La Jolla Playhouse's high-concept world premiere is strengthened by a superb ensemble cast—and nearly derailed by its ending

Family Politics Unfold Backward in Time in ‘The Year to Come’
The cast of La Jolla Playhouse’s world-premiere production of <em>The Year to Come</em> | Photo by Jim Carmody

High-concept narratives are risky. If your unconventional structure doesn’t tell the story better than a straightforward presentation would, it just becomes a gimmick, working parallel to but not in tandem with its content. The high concept that structures Lindsey Ferrentino’s The Year to Come succeeds, enriching its story in fascinating and surprising ways. The play begins now—December 2018—at a family New Year’s Eve celebration, and unfolds backward in time, checking in on the same family every New Year’s Eve prior, all the way back to 2000. Their holidays center around an actual three-foot-deep backyard pool that’s built into the set—an impressive achievement by scenic designer Christopher Acebo.

You can do several clever things in this format that you couldn’t in a timeline running forward, and the play tries them all, sentimental, comically ironic, mysterious. Pop Pop (Peter Van Wagner) is at first absent and fondly remembered, then present but invalid and mute, unmoving from one spot for several years, only to then spring to his feet and deliver a rousing monologue and guitar solo, anti-time miraculously curing him. Ironic jokes that are funny only in hindsight (“I can’t imagine there ever being a worse president than Bush”; “N*Sync will still be touring when they’re old and gray,” etc.) are well chosen up until the last few years, when they’re leaned on maybe a little too often. Likewise, the buried past that everyone tiptoes around is an intriguing source of mystery right up until the play’s only real misstep, which is impossible to discuss without spoilers, so I’ll get back to that in a minute with adequate warning.

Our family’s composition and major historical beats map organically to those of America at large. Pop Pop arrived through Ellis Island, a Jew fleeing Nazi Germany; his daughter Estelle (Jane Kaczmarek, best known as Lois from TV’s Malcolm in the Middle) spends years working through a trauma we learn about only gradually, and his other daughter Pam (Marcia DeBonis, seen recently as an inmate radio host on Orange Is the New Black) contends with multiple chronic health issues. Pam and her husband Joe (Ray Anthony Thomas) got a mortgage they couldn’t afford right before the 2008 recession, and are one of those curious Florida couples who voted for both Obama and Trump, evincing laid-back, fact-agnostic stances that infuriate their nephew Jim (Adam Chanler-Berat), who swears every year that he’s never coming back. Jim and his husband (née boyfriend, née “roommate”) Sinan (Pomme Koch) have an increasingly tenser relationship with Estelle’s husband, Frank (Jonathan Nichols) as time rewinds—though refreshingly little of that tension has to do with Sinan’s being Muslim and Frank’s being a conservative Long Island firefighter who responded on 9/11.

There’s clearly a wealth of narrative potential here, and for 18 of the play’s 19 years, the cast and writing harmonize to explore it beautifully, under the fine direction of UC San Diego MFA alum Anne Kauffman.

There’s clearly a wealth of narrative potential here, and for 18 of the play’s 19 years, the cast and writing harmonize to explore it beautifully, under the fine direction of UC San Diego MFA alum Anne Kauffman. Very few scenes contain any explicitly “important” conversations, instead allowing a portrait of a complicated family to emerge through incidental slice-of-life interactions that subtly change through time. No one’s a cliché, not even politically incorrect Frank, who’s got the biggest personality and earns consistent laughs. Character is revealed in fascinating, well-acted tidbits year after year, until—

Until.

Here’s the spoiler warning, if spoilers bother you. Personally, I think that knowing a twist or surprise in advance should not make good writing fall apart. Unless it’s a genre mystery and the reveal is the whole point, the path you take should remain enjoyable even if you know what it’s leading to. If knowing the ending saps a second viewing of tension and joy, it’s less of a story than a knock-knock joke. Still, I wouldn’t delve into those ending details unless they dramatically altered our perspective of the plot as a whole, as they do here.

So, with that in mind: Our final character, Abigail (Jenna Dioguardi), like Pop Pop, also starts off unseen, credited in the program only as “Performer” and mentioned only occasionally in family anecdotes or as a name that immediately prompts a change in subject. If you’re paying close attention, by 2003 or so you’ve put together that she was Jim’s sister and her absence is intimately tied up in the family’s shared pain—and if you’re me, you’re praying Please God, don’t have her die in 9/11.

Family Politics Unfold Backward in Time in ‘The Year to Come’

Family Politics Unfold Backward in Time in ‘The Year to Come’

Jane Kaczmarek, Adam Chanler-Berat, Pomme Koch, and Marcia DeBonis in The Year to Come | Photo: Jim Carmody.

But then she appears, for just the final year, and since everyone has unnaturally refrained from referring to her in detail before this, she exists only as a tiresome trope: the pretty young woman full of potential whose tragic murder serves as the key motivation for other characters—and just in case anyone needed the hand-holding, Frank finds a reason to refer to her office location “in the North Tower.” Turns out, nearly all the lovely, nuanced character work we’ve been exploring for two hours converges in a tidy bow on one event whose enormity is impossible to find nuance in in the span of one scene. It’s especially bewildering, given that Frank has had several great scenes earlier to work through his specific emotional reaction to 9/11 while carefully avoiding all mention of his daughter. Treating this as a reveal creates the effect of a play that for 95 percent of its runtime is about many things, including 9/11, then suddenly—ta-da!—it was Mostly About 9/11 the entire time. It feels cheap, manipulative, and insulting, as if the writer knows, but could not trust her audience to believe in, the lack of straight lines and simple explanations behind real-life family dynamics or the greater historical trends they’re meant to reflect on.

Maybe other theatergoers require and will be satisfied by that dead weight dropped in at the end to explain everything. It’s possible the writer didn’t intend for it to be the all-eclipsing “aha” moment that it is—but why else the purposeful elision, why else end immediately in 2000 rather than after an even 20 years, which might have given Abigail room to be more than a blank corpse? This world-premiere is thought-provoking and at times deeply affecting, backed at all but that one point by sharp, confident writing and a cast full of immense talent. Maybe if you head into it knowing the gigantic curve ball that’s coming, you can avoid being thrown by it and enjoy all its laudable qualities for what they are.


The Year to Come

At La Jolla Playhouse through December 30

Tickets at lajollaplayhouse.org

Family Politics Unfold Backward in Time in ‘The Year to Come’

The cast of La Jolla Playhouse’s world-premiere production of The Year to Come | Photo by Jim Carmody

Dan Letchworth is the copy chief of San Diego Magazine. His print column Dansplaining explores San Diego trivia, and his theater review blog Everyone’s a Critic was a finalist for best online column in the 2019 National City & Regional Magazine Awards.

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Music AUGUST 11, 2026

15 Things to Do in San Diego This Weekend: August 11–16

Spend an evening with Goose, explore Chula Vista’s annual Lemon Festival and feel the heat (and the beat) in Hell’s Kitchen

15 Things to Do in San Diego This Weekend: August 11–16
Courtesy of San Diego Made

Films, concerts and an exorbitant amount of lemons comprise this week’s most entertaining events in San Diego. Those looking to beat the heat can find shelter and cinematic gold with The Treasure of the Sierra Madre at Digital Gym Cinema, or check out a cult classic at the Balboa Theatre’s 40th anniversary screening of Little Shop of Horrors. From South Bay to La Jolla, concertgoers can catch collaborative tours from the likes of Santana & the Doobie Brothers, Helado Negro & Reyna Tropical and Jason Aldean & Luke Bryan. This weekend also marks the return of the two-day San Diego Made Summer Market and the yearly Lemon Festival, both of which are ripe for shopping unique local vendors.  

JUMP TO: Food & Drink | Concerts & Festivals | Theater & Art Exhibits | More Fun Things to Do

Courtesy of Downtown Chula Vista Association

Food & Drink Events in San Diego This Weekend

Bayside Bands, Brew & BBQ at SeaWorld San Diego

August 14 – September 7

SeaWorld San Diego’s beer and barbeque party is back with a live music component and an extra ‘B’ in its name. Every Friday-Sunday (and Labor Day) through Sept. 7, the Bayside Bands, Brew & BBQ festival will feature 60+ locally crafted beers and bites like pork belly tater tots, root beer baked beans and s’mores pie. SeaWorld visitors can also check out rock concerts featuring Saliva (Saturday), Uncle Kracker (Aug. 22) and Skillet (Aug. 29) in the Bayside Amphitheater. Park entry starts at $74 for Bayside Bands, Brew & BBQ dates, and includes festival admission. 

500 Sea World Drive, Mission Bay

Lemon Festival 

August 15

Seize the day, or squeeze the day—whichever your preference—at the Downtown Chula Vista Association’s free Lemon Festival. This annual event celebrates lemons in all their citrusy glory and ensures the city’s lemon legacy still bears fruit for years to come. This Saturday from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m., enjoy a lemony menu, two live music stages, arts and crafts vendors, kids activities at Memorial Park and photos with the festival’s mascot, Tarty the Lemon. And be sure to save room for the lemon pie eating contest, with registration still open to those ages 12-99. 

Third Avenue, Chula Vista

Courtesy of Jason Aldean

Concerts & Festivals in San Diego This Weekend

Santana & the Doobie Brothers at North Island Credit Union Amphitheatre

August 11

Few regions have birthed as many iconic bands as the Bay Area, with Santana (San Francisco) and the Doobie Brothers (San Jose) among the area’s most influential. Though they’ve mastered different variations of rock n’ roll—with Santana championing Latin rock and the Doobie Brothers masters of breezy yacht rock—both groups understand the importance of a good groove. This Tuesday (7 p.m.), the two bands will run through their greatest hits at North Island Credit Union Amphitheatre, and showcase their shared roots. Tickets start at $28 for this concert. 

2050 Entertainment Circle, Chula Vista

Helado Negro & Reyna Tropical at Esptein Family Ampitheater 

August 12

One of the year’s best musical teamups—combining the talents of Roberto Carlos Lange (Helado Negro) and Fabi Reyna (Reyna Tropical)—produced Helado Tropical, a subtle yet audacious daliance with Latin pop and wavy soundscapes. This Wednesday (7 p.m.) at Epstein Family Amphitheater, Lange and Reyna will pull from their respective catalogs and play their collaborative album in full. Ticket options include youth admission for ages 2-18 ($25-$28) and adults ($35-$50). 

9480 Innovation Lane, La Jolla

An Evening with Goose at Cal Coast Credit Union Open Air Theatre

August 13

The defining quality that makes a jam band truly so is a willingness to improvise, keeping audiences, and even their most dedicated fans, waiting with bated breath for their next move. As with pioneers of the practice like the Grateful Dead, Connecticut rock group Goose treat concerts as a nightly display for their vast musical chemistry. When Goose performs this Thursday (7 p.m.) at Cal Coast Credit Union Theatre, don’t be surprised if a familiar track is extended by an extra five, ten or thirty minutes into a new cosmic space. Tickets start at $55 for this concert. 

5500 Campanile Drive, College Area

Jason Aldean & Luke Bryan at Petco Park

August 16

Georgians Jason Aldean and Luke Bryan both began their rise to country music stardom in the 2000s, and have since become two of the genre’s revered elder statesmen. After a sold-out one-off show at the University of Georgia in April, the pair decided to take the Peach State experience nationwide with co-headlining stops in Missoula, Montana, Washington, D.C., Las Vegas and San Diego’s Petco Park. This Sunday (4 p.m.), country fans can catch the two stars, as well as a slew of up-and-coming talent, with openers Gavin Adcock, Chase Matthew, Dee Jay Silver and DJ Rock. Tickets start at $74 for this concert. 

100 Park Boulevard, Downtown

Ryan Hardison is a freelance arts and entertainment writer and recent graduate of San Diego State. When he's not staring at his laptop, he's likely eating an adobada burrito or getting sunburnt at the beach.

Everything SD AUGUST 5, 2026

Your Guide to Del Mar Wine & Food Festival 2026 

From celebrity pickleball tournaments to intimate dinner parties with your favorite Food Network chefs, here are all of the can’t-miss events going on Sept 30–Oct 4

Your Guide to Del Mar Wine & Food Festival 2026 
Courtesy of Del Mar Wine & Food Festival

Play is underrated. Somewhere along the way, someone decided it was something we should outgrow. That you A good song comes on, and they dance. A game appears, and they’re in. Someone hands them a melting ice cream cone, and somehow it’s the best part of the day.

Adults tend to need a reason. Or maybe just the right setting.

That’s part of what makes the Del Mar Wine & Food Festival feel different. Yes, the week revolves around food and wine, with celebrated chefs, winemakers, and restaurants drawing crowds from across the region. But what lingers afterward is the conversations that stretch a little longer than expected, the strangers who become dinner companions, the live music that pulls people out of their seats, and the rare chance to spend a few hours simply enjoying yourself without much of an agenda.

The Grand Tasting is the festival’s centerpiece, bringing thousands of guests together over two days for hundreds of bites and pours. But some of the week’s most memorable experiences happen on a smaller scale. In the days leading up to the main event, intimate dinners, chef collaborations, and guided tastings create opportunities for guests to interact more closely with the people behind the food and wine and with each other.

Here’s your guide to the 2026 Del Mar Wine & Food Festival happening September 30–October 4.

Photo Credit: Olivia Lillian

Wednesday, September 30

Signature San Diego Opening Night Party at Monarch Ocean Pub

Start festival week the San Diego way: ocean views, Baja-inspired bites, and a drink in hand as the sun goes down. The Signature San Diego Opening Night Party at Monarch Ocean Pub sets the tone for the week ahead with a walk-around tasting experience celebrating the flavors that make this city impossible to replicate. It’s an evening of fresh coastal cuisine, bold Mexican flavors, Baja seafood, and plenty of local favorites—all served against one of Del Mar’s most iconic backdrops. Consider it your first official toast to the weekend ahead…

  • Monarch Ocean Pub | 1555 Camino Del Mar, Del Mar
  • 5–9 p.m.
  • Get Tickets 
Courtesy of Del Mar Wine & Food Festival

Friday, October 2

Celebrity Pickleball Tournament Presented by Justin Vineyards & Winery

Wine and competition make an unexpectedly perfect pair. You can join Drew Brees and celebrity players at Barnes Tennis Center for a pickleball tournament benefiting Feeding San Diego, where the sidelines are just as exciting as the court. Grab a paddle, cheer from the sidelines, or simply enjoy a glass of wine while the action unfolds. The day blends friendly competition with an all-inclusive tasting experience.

Since year one, Del Mar Wine & Food Festival has partnered with Feeding San Diego to raise $100,000 in support of the organization’s mission to fight hunger across the region. Every serve, sip, and bite helps give back to the community that makes this festival possible.

Remember that pickleball paddle you swore you’d use? Time to put it to work.

  • Barnes Tennis Center | 4490 W Point Loma Blvd, San Diego, CA 92107
  • 11 a.m.—3 p.m.
  • Get Tickets
Courtesy of Del Mar Wine & Food Festival

Thursday, October 1

Rioja Uncorked at Rancho Valencia

This is essentially a passport to Spain with no airport required. Set among the lush grounds of Rancho Valencia, Rioja Uncorked celebrates one of Spain’s most iconic wine regions with an evening of exceptional pours and thoughtfully paired bites. Guests will sip their way through Rioja wines while enjoying a menu featuring everything from Hiramasa crudo and uni toast to duck rillette, birria mini tacos, Cardiff Crack tri-tip sandwiches, and a sweet finale from Karen Krasne of Extraordinary Desserts (date night plans, solved).

  • Rancho Valencia | 5921 Valencia Cir, Rancho Santa Fe
  • 6–9 p.m.
  • Get Tickets
Courtesy of Del Mar Wine & Food Festival

Friday, October 2

Justin Wine Dinner with Chefs Kaitlyn Weber, Buddha Lo & Jackson Kalb

Justin Wine Dinner sounds simple: three chefs, one unforgettable table. But chefs Kaitlyn Weber (Estancia La Jolla), Buddha Lo (Top Chef), and Jackson Kalb (Top Chef) are taking you on a one-night-only culinary ride where three styles collide over a multi-course menu paired with exceptional pours from Justin Vineyards & Winery. Set in Estancia’s coastal estate, the evening unfolds course by course with pairings from Justin wines as each chef brings their own style to a menu focused on craft, connection, and a bit of friendly culinary overlap. It’s the kind of culinary conversation that only happens when very, very talented people cook together. 

  • Estancia – Olive Lawn | 9700 N Torrey Pines Road, La Jolla, California 
  • 6–9:30 p.m
  • Get Tickets
Courtesy of Del Mar Wine & Food Festival

Saturday, October 3

Official After Party at Guesthouse La Valle

Isabella Dallas is a freelance writer for San Diego Magazine and the Arts and Culture Editor at The Daily Aztec in her final year at San Diego State University. She previously worked as an editorial intern for SDM, but when she’s not writing, you can find her trying the best coffee spots in SD, devouring the latest rom-coms, and indulging in anything and everything pop culture.

Music JULY 29, 2026

The Best Things to Do in San Diego: August 2026

From concerts and festivals to theater, food, and outdoor fun, here are the San Diego events worth adding to your August calendar

The Best Things to Do in San Diego: August 2026
Photo Credit: Courtney Reed

August is San Diego at full volume. Summer crowds are still chasing sunshine, but the calendar belongs to locals who know this is when the city really shows off. One night you’re dancing under the stars, the next you’re watching thoroughbreds with a plate of oysters in hand, catching Broadway hits, wandering gallery exhibitions, or rallying on a downtown pickleball court. Whether you’re looking for live music, festivals, theater, food, or an excuse to spend as little time indoors as possible, these are the August events worth putting on your calendar.

JUMP TO: Concerts & Festivals | Theater & Art Exhibits | More Fun Things to Do

Courtesy of The Rady Shell

Concerts & Festivals in San Diego This Month

August 9

On the heels of Cross Pollination II’s release, house musician Lane 8 will co-headline FNGRS CRSSD x Cross Pollination, a day of back-to-back grooves at Waterfront Park.

August 11–16

Cross coasts at the Civic Theatre for a jukebox musical rooted in family, coming of age, and blossoming talent in Alicia Keys’ Hell’s Kitchen, inspired by the 16-Grammy Award-winning singer’s NYC upbringing.

August 23

Jeff Goldblum is a classic man. In his show at The Rady Shell, Goldblum will accentuate his old-school charm with his Mildred Snitzer Orchestra and the San Diego Symphony Orchestra.

Photo Credit: Aaron Rumley

Theater & Art Exhibits in San Diego This Month

August 1–October 10

Explore gallery walls lined with artwork juried by acclaimed artist Paul Mpagi Sepuya and chosen by the Athenaeum Music & Arts Library for its esteemed 34th Annual Juried Exhibition.

August 7

As you already know, we adore San Diego. That’s why we’re assembling the city’s crème de la crème—including over 90 curated vendors—in Liberty Station for our annual Best of San Diego Party, presented by Pechanga Resort & Casino.

August 12

Helado Negro and Reyna Tropical each specialize in bilingual music, songs overflowing with proud markers of Latinx identity. Hear the ear-tingling transmissions from their collaborative LP at Epstein Family Amphitheater.

August 16

Country music superstars, proud Georgians, and close pals Jason Aldean and Luke Bryan are doubling down on their summertime stadium tour with a boot-stomping concert at Petco Park.

August 27–September 6

The one-woman play Eleanor—told via the eloquent perspective of Eleanor Roosevelt—will make a limited return to the North Coast Repertory Theatre.

More Fun Things to Do in San Diego This Month

Now Through September 3

For six straight Thursdays, downtown’s Fifth Avenue will shut down and become the city’s first-ever street-style pickleball event. Bring a paddle and enjoy DJs, a wellness market, and zero-proof drinks at Gaslamp Urban Pickleball.

August 8

Del Mar Thoroughbred Club’s newest foodie event, the buttery Turf & Surf Festival, offers a luxurious combo of land and sea, built for watching trackside with a loaded plate in hand.

August 22

For the first time since 2019, the free Chula Vista HarborFest will hit the shores of Bayside Park with a classic car expo, lucha libre showdowns, and the chance to meet a mermaid.

August 29

Celebrate the seven decades (and counting) spent upholding Point Loma’s coastal landmark during Cabrillo Under the Stars, a 21-plus fundraiser with bites, Beatles covers, and, best of all, twinkling lights.

Ryan Hardison is a freelance arts and entertainment writer and recent graduate of San Diego State. When he's not staring at his laptop, he's likely eating an adobada burrito or getting sunburnt at the beach.

Studio S AUGUST 10, 2026

The Secret to a Home That Feels Just Right

Behind every beautiful space is a thoughtful process, and ASID San Diego is helping homeowners understand the value of professional design.

The Secret to a Home That Feels Just Right
Courtesy of ASID

A perfectly designed home rarely happens by accident. Those kitchens that feel effortless and rooms that seem to tell a story the second you walk in? They’re usually the work of someone who knows exactly what they’re doing.

It’s knowing which ideas will actually work, which materials will hold up over time, and how to turn a collection of choices into a space that feels intentional. That’s where a professional interior designer comes in.

For the American Society of Interior Designers (ASID) California San Diego Chapter, the goal is to help people see interior design as more than just the finished look. Behind every well-designed space is a process built on technical expertise. Designers are educated in everything from professional software and construction details to building codes, space planning, materials, and functionality.

Courtesy of ASID

“People don’t always realize how much goes on behind the scenes,” Kirsten Recce , current president of the ASID California San Diego Chapter, says. “Our designers are not just doing furniture placement and color selection and picking out new fluffy pillows. That’s not what they’re trained for.”

ASID members bring formal education, continued learning, and industry knowledge to their projects, helping create spaces that are not only beautiful, but designed to work. A paint color that changes completely depending on the lighting. A material that looks beautiful in a showroom but doesn’t make sense for everyday life. A layout that photographs well but doesn’t function for the people living there. These are the details where professional guidance can make all the difference.

Still, one of the biggest misconceptions about hiring an interior designer is that it’s reserved for massive renovations, luxury homes, or people who already know exactly what they want. The process can feel intimidating. Where do you begin? Is a designer worth the investment? What if you only need help with one room?

ASID’s answer: start with one hour.

ASID’s Spruce Up events break down one of the biggest barriers between homeowners and professional design: knowing where to begin. Held twice a year, the community program gives homeowners the chance to work directly with an ASID designer through a one-hour, $125 consultation in their own home. Whether you’re looking for advice on furniture placement, window treatments, kitchen and bath updates, remodeling ideas, vacation rentals, color selections or something else entirely, the upcoming September 2026 event offers an approachable way to get expert guidance before committing to a full project. Signups are open through Sept. 7, with consultations taking place Sept. 21 through Oct. 31. Proceeds benefit ASID San Diego’s educational and community programs. Register here!

Courtesy of ASID

“It’s a great opportunity for people who are in that exploratory phase,” Recce says. “Maybe they’re not sure they want to hire an interior designer yet, or they think it sounds daunting or expensive. This gives them a chance to discover what working with a designer is actually like.”

Design is personal. A good designer isn’t just creating a beautiful room; they’re helping create a space that fits the way someone lives.

“We’re a resource to all of San Diego County,” Recce says. “It doesn’t cost anything to pick up the phone and call and ask. We’ll answer.”

Follow ASID San Diego on Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook for updates on upcoming events, or connect with the chapter directly at [email protected] or 619-548-8847.

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Arts & Culture JULY 15, 2026

The North County Band You Should Be Listening to Right Now

We the Commas are mixing surf, soul, alternative rock, and sibling chemistry into one unmistakable sound

Siblings make better music. That’s the hot take, and there’s some logic and science behind it. The Bee Gees, Jackson 5, Billie Eilish and Finneas, AC/DC, Van Halen, The Allman Brothers—heck, even the Hanson brothers, why not? Beyond just a shared sense of taste and nonverbal communication developed over decades of living and evolving together, there’s a thing called “blood harmony.” The genetically similar throat cavities, vocal cords, speech patterns, and resonant bone structures all blend each unique voice into a more homophonic sound than what comes out of two non-related singers.

Those throat cavities are working wonders for emerging San Diego band We the Commas—three brothers (from oldest to youngest) Lenny, Jordon, and Cam Comma.

Raised in Vista and Carlsbad, the family opted out of cable TV (video games got a pass). Without binge-watching to fill bored hours, the trio turned to music. Guitar Hero led to GarageBand and finally to live instruments—guitars for Lenny and Cam, drum set for Jordon. In their sound, the influence of Stevie Wonder, Erykah Badu, The Who, and Dave Matthews Band is obvious, and so is surf culture, specifically that laid-back chill of North County surf culture.

“We’re like the Black Beach Boys,” Cam says. (Note: Three of the five founding members of the Beach Boys were siblings—the theory gets stronger.)

Their debut EP pretty clearly lays out how they see their sound—titled SARB, an acronym for Surf Alternative R&B. That resonates in the song “Sherry,” with its easy-listening, windows-down-on-the-101 vibe. It also works in the louder, surf-punkier “Pissed Off.” Despite some advances in reducing core stereotyping tendencies, people still tend to autofill Black musicians into rap and R&B. The Comma brothers immediately circumvent that by declaring themselves out the gates.

“SARB makes it so [listeners are] open to all of the things that we want to do,” Lenny says. “From there, you can put a label on whatever you think it sounds like.”

Courtesy of We the Commas

People—and musicians further up the stream—are taking note. In 2023, they co-wrote the song “I Keep Fallin’” with Eric Cannata, guitarist for multi-platinum SoCal band Young the Giant. In early 2024, they were tapped to open the national tour of Brooklyn’s jazz-pop heroes, Sammy Rae & The Friends. Comedian Gabriel “Fluffy” Iglesias invited them to warm up his show at Pechanga a couple months later.

“We really believe genuinely, with our whole hearts, minds and souls, that this is going to work the way that we think it’s going to,” Cam says, grinning ear to ear.

Currently, the Commas live together in Vista, and the dream, wholeheartedly, is more alive than ever. They’ve put out two dozen singles and a trio of EPs: SARB (2020), Old School Love (2021), and Aeroplane (2024); this year alone brought the release of three new singles, including “Let Me,” a silky-smooth entry in their growing collection of love songs.

“We fully realized the magic is in all of us together,” Lenny says. “We know that this doesn’t happen without each person, and we have respect for each other because we need each other.”

As they grow as brothers and as a band, the Commas try to always remember what unified them in the first place.

“Music has always been a glue,” Jordon says.

Ryan Hardison is a freelance arts and entertainment writer and recent graduate of San Diego State. When he's not staring at his laptop, he's likely eating an adobada burrito or getting sunburnt at the beach.

Everything SD JULY 13, 2026

San Diego Neighborhood Guide: Rancho Santa Fe

Explore restaurants, activities, and shops within this affluent North County community

San Diego Neighborhood Guide: Rancho Santa Fe
Courtesy of the Inn at Rancho Santa Fe

The inland North County community of Rancho Santa Fe is often associated with wealth. It’s one of San Diego’s most expensive residential markets and is consistently ranked one of the highest-income zip codes in California and the U.S. Rancho Santa Fe is known for its large equestrian community including riding facilities and horse trails, as well as its country club lifestyle and associated golf courses.

At the center of this luxury master-planned community is a small, walkable downtown area referred to as the “village,” with The Inn at Rancho Santa Fe acting as both a landmark and social hub. Much of the community, including the historic Inn, was designed by acclaimed architect Lilian Rice, one of California’s earliest female architects. The Spanish Colonial-style architecture she brought to the village is still one of its defining characteristics today.  

Whether you’re coming to Rancho Santa Fe for golf, horseback riding, or pampering at a resort spa, be sure to start with a short walk around the village to take in the neighborhood’s charm. Plan your next visit here with our neighborhood guide to the area’s best restaurants, things to do, and shopping.

Jump To: Restaurants | Things to Do | Shopping

Courtesy of Goli

Rancho Santa Fe Restaurants, Bars, and Coffee Shops

The Pony Room

Families congregate at The Pony Room for elevated California ranch-style cuisine. Lamb lollipops, carne asada tacos, burgers, and weekly dinner specials are offered here, alongside an extensive collection of wine and spirits (especially tequila) and sizeable kids menus. As the signature restaurant of Rancho Valencia Resort & Spa, this all-day eatery is a lively centerpiece of the local social scene.

5921 Valencia Circle

Mille Fleurs

The piano bar at Mille Fleurs is the buzziest spot to be on Friday and Saturday nights in Rancho Santa Fe. French classics like escargot, lobster bisque, duck confit, and steak frites are the main dinner attractions at this local institution that has been around for more than 40 years. Spring for the four-course prix fixe menu before nabbing a coveted bar seat near the piano entertainer.

6009 Paseo Delicias

Nick & G’s Restaurant

Nick & G’s is one of the most prominent restaurants in the village, with an outdoor patio that overlooks the main thoroughfare. Enjoy modern Italian food, steaks, and seafood dishes here, including homemade pasta, pizza, wagyu beef, and oysters. Be sure to check their live music schedule and events calendar for the latest happenings.

6106 Paseo Delicias

Lilian’s

Named after renowned architect and planner Lilian Rice, Lilian’s is The Inn at Rancho Santa Fe’s flagship restaurant. Their upscale menus feature sustainable seafood, grass-fed meats, local produce, and even sushi rolls during dinner. Outdoor seating provides a bird’s-eye view of the village and an elegant backdrop for weekend brunch. Stop by Bing’s Bar (a nod to Bing Crosby) for craft cocktails, beer, wine, and light bites in a refined setting.

5951 Linea Del Cielo

Thyme in the Ranch

Quaint cafe and bakery Thyme in the Ranch serves a small selection of breakfast and lunch items (don’t miss the tarragon chicken salad), but is perhaps best known for its pastries and baked goods. Cakes, pies, muffins, scones, and cookies fly off the shelves here, where locals come for special occasions, parties, and group catering orders.  

16905 Avenida De Acacias

Paseo RSF

Located inside a historic building once home to Rancho Santa Fe’s original schoolhouse, Paseo RSF is one of the village’s newest dining options. The charming American bistro has pasta, salads, burgers, meat and seafood entrees, plus a thoughtfully selected California wine list and new sushi and omakase program. Kids and dogs are both welcome here.

6024 Paseo Delicias, Suite C

Rancho Roasters

Grab a quick coffee to go from this walk-up window in the same shopping center as the post office. Cinnamon roll lattes, cold brew, spiced chai, smoothies, protein bowls, and more can be found at Rancho Roasters, where they brew beans from Dark Horse Coffee.

16950 Via De Santa Fe

Goli Pizza

Casual pizzeria and martini bar Goli is a popular spot for catching the latest sports games. Order one of their unique specialty pizzas like the Casbah with hummus and veggies, build your own pizza or burger, or go with one of their hearty wraps that’s made with an extra thin version of pizza dough.

18021 Calle Ambiente, Suite 403

Cocina del Rancho

Find generous portions of Mexican food at Cocina del Rancho, run by the same owners as Carlsbad’s Cicciotti’s Trattoria Italiana and Village Kabob. Get classic dishes like burritos, tacos, and enchiladas, plus their specialty items including pulpo, carne asada, and fajitas with lobster tail. Don’t skip the margaritas.

16089 San Dieguito Road

Chino Farm Stand

Kai Oliver-Kurtin is a San Diego-based writer who covers travel, dining, events, and culture. Her writing has been published in USA Today, Condé Nast Traveler, Fodor's Travel, Marie Claire, and HuffPost, among others.

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