You’ve done it. You’ve found the love of your life, gotten engaged, and set the intention to say “I do.”
Now for the hard part- decisions, decisions, decisions! With so many choices, planning the ultimate dream wedding can sometimes seem less than dreamy.
Fortunately, for those deciding to get hitched in beautiful, perpetually sunny San Diego, our incredible venues and vendors make planning a cinch. Whether you’re choosing an intimate, rustic-style wedding or a big glitzy extravaganza packed with friends and fam, we’ve got all the best suggestions for taking the stress out of saying yes.
A ‘Destination Wedding’ At Home
Whether you’re native to San Diego or a happily resettled transplant, it’s highly likely that you’ve bragged about our city and its bounty of beautiful scenery to your future wedding guests. From the pristine beaches of La Jolla to the vibrantly cosmopolitan Gaslamp Quarter and the rustic mountain charm of Julian, San Diego has a wide range of options for planning a “destination* wedding without the hassle of traveling far from home.
Looking for a venue that expresses your wild, adventurous spirit? Choose one of two world-renowned San Diego Zoo Wildlife Alliance parks and prepare to thrill your guests with lions and tigers and bears–oh my! Or perhaps the sophisticated, modern elegance of the San Diego Museum of Contemporary Art is the perfect stage for proclaiming your everlasting love in style. Treat your guests to breathtaking views of the San Diego Bay by tying the knot at the marina or adjacent to historic, picturesque salt ponds. Dance the night away in a decadent grand ballroom at a Carlsbad luxury resort or escape the city lights in favor of dazzling stars and fresh mountain air in Alpine. Or maybe an artsy-yet-timeless boutique hotel facing the Oceanside Pier and shoreline is calling your name.
No matter your guest count or the size of your budget, our curated list of spectacular San Diego venues is sure to speak to whatever suits your fancy. So, get ready for the wedding staycation of a lifetime and a romantic adventure to remember.
Venues and Vendors
La Jolla Shores Hotel
8110 Camino Del Oro, La Jolla, CA 92037
From an intimate gathering of loved ones directly on the beach to a lavish reception of up to 200 guests, La Jolla Shores Hotel presents couples with a host of options for taking the proverbial plunge. With six unique venues on site, all replete with gorgeous views of La Jolla’s golden sands and sparkling sea, this classic beachfront hotel is the perfect setting for the beachy wedding of your dreams. What’s more, the hotel’s highly experienced catering department will handle every detail upon request, from mouthwatering menu options to elegant decor.
Museum of Contemporary Art
700 Prospect Street, La Jolla, CA 92037
With stunning modern architecture, breathtaking ocean views, and a world-class collection of more than 4,700 unique works of art created after 1950, the newly expanded La Jolla campus of the San Diego Museum of Contemporary Art provides the opportunity for couples with exquisite taste to throw a sophisticated wedding for the ages. Choose from a variety of rooms and terraces for your ceremony and reception, and prepare to wow your guests with the spectacular combination of art, architecture, and nature.
Mission Pacific Beach Resort and The Seabird Ocean Resort & Spa
101 Mission Avenue, Oceanside, CA 92054
What’s better than the option of booking your wedding at a stylish, oceanfront resort with a MICHELIN Star restaurant AND the actual house from Top Gun? How about adding in access to an award-winning full service spa and beauty lounge, exclusive bookable golf experiences with Titleist Performance Institute and a host of activities and amenities your guests and family are sure to love? Sister properties Mission Pacific Beach Resort and The Seabird Ocean Resort & Spa sit side by side adjacent to the historic Oceanside Pier. With a diverse offering of wedding event venues, each resort offers multiple ways to create the beachfront wedding of a lifetime.
Red Hawk Ridge
6188 Red Hawk Ridge, Alpine, CA 91901
Dreaming of sipping custom cocktails on the veranda of a rustic lodge, surrounded by manzanita and oak trees at your reception? Or how about a luxury log cabin, replete with a pool and hot tub, for your bridal suite? Look no further than Red Hawk Ridge in Alpine. A mere 45-minute drive from downtown San Diego, this mountain venue is the perfect romantic hideaway for those prioritizing the coziness of the countryside over the hustle and bustle of a city wedding.
Park Hyatt Aviara
7100 Aviara Resort Drive, Carlsbad, CA 92011
With over 200.000 square feet of indoor and outdoor spaces in sunny, coastal Carlsbad, the Park Hyatt Aviara Resort, Golf Club, and Spa offers unparalleled possibilities for engaged couples to design the dreamiest of weddings. From trips to the Miraval Life in Balance Spa, to private poolside cabanas, to 18 holes of championship golf, this five-star, five-diamond resort is the ideal luxury setting for those wishing to spoil themselves and their guests. For couples wishing for a grand affair or those simply hoping for an intimate elopement, special wedding packages help all the details come together like magic.
Sacred Mountain Julian
2323 Farmer Road, Julian, CA 92036
For couples fantasizing about a magical mountain wedding, Sacred Mountain Julian is calling. Nestled within 61 enchanted acres of unspoiled natural splendor, Sacred Mountain offers newlyweds all the romance and tranquility of a mountain retreat with the warm, welcoming atmosphere of a country inn. In addition to luxurious destination packages, including accommodations for up to 32 overnight guests, the property is also eco-conscious, family-oriented, and pet-friendly for those eager to incorporate man’s best friend into the proceedings.
The Bahia Resort
998 W Mission Bay Drive, San Diego, CA 92109
Whether you prefer your feet on the sand, a ballroom floor, or the bow of a Victorian era paddlewheel boat, the Bahia Resort Hotel in Mission Bay has something truly special for every betrothed couple. This multi-venue, expansive resort is perfectly customizable for weddings big and small, from an intimate ceremony under a gazebo surrounded by lush tropical gardens to an enormous reception in the Mission Bay Ballroom, which seats up to 500 guests.
Bernardo Winery
13330 Paseo Del Verano Norte, San Diego, CA 92128
Check the “something old” off your list by booking this 130-year-old winery, the oldest in Southern California. A mere 25 miles from downtown San Diego, Bernardo Winery is nestled in the green hills of Rancho Bernardo and comes fully stocked with rustic charm and, of course, locally made wine. On-site catering options and shuttles to nearby hotels sweeten the deal.
Seaside Splendor: Visit Santa Barbara
Looking to plan an actual destination wedding that’s still close to home? A quick romantic road trip to Santa Barbara, The American Riviera’, is sure to inspire. Situated between majestic mountains and the sparkling Pacific, Santa Barbara’s classic Spanish-influenced architecture, cinematic ambiance and laid-back coastal elegance make it the ideal setting to host your happily ever after. From intimate gatherings to opulent affairs, Santa Barbara is a treasure trove of splendid venues suited for every love story.
Venue 808
808 J Street, San Diego, CA 92101
Venue 808 is a one-of-a-kind venue housed within the historic 1933 TR Produce warehouse, located in downtown San Diego. The expansive venue features a built-in bar, sunken cocktail lounge, multiple furnished lofts, a vintage farmhouse building, and a grove of real olive trees! Seriously, you need to see this all-inclusive venue to believe it. Venue 808 is the perfect venue for a ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception all in one for 100 to 350 guests.
Safe Harbor Marinas
640 Marina Parkway, Chula Vista, CA 91910
Get ready to embark upon your journey to marital bliss as the sun sets behind you on a gorgeous, idyllic marina in San Diego’s South Bay. Safe Harbor Marinas provides the perfect spot to tie the knot. With stunning views of the active marina and city skyline, the spacious waterfront pavilion accommodates up to 150 guests and is perfect for DIY couples looking for flexibility and the ability to create their own perfectly unique wedding experience.
San Diego Zoo and Wildlife Alliance
2920 Zoo Drive, San Diego, CA 92101
Imagine exchanging vows as the sun sets on a sweeping savannah, big cats roaring in the background, without leaving town. Those looking to have a wildly romantic wedding can bring their imaginations to life by booking with the San Diego Zoo Wildlife Alliance. Weather choosing the world-famous zoo’s lush Balboa Park location or the expansive Safari Park in Escondido, an unforgettable adventure awaits. The zoo’s award winning team will guide you effortlessly through every detail. You can also feel great about your choice, knowing you are contributing to the alliance’s important conservation efforts.
Roy’s Restaurant
333 W Harbor Drive, San Diego, CA 92101
For couples looking to impress their guests with a feast for the senses, Roy’s Restaurant— named after famed Japanese-American chef Roy Yamaguchi—is the perfect pairing of culinary adventure and romantic ambiance. Located in the Marriott Hotel on the San Diego waterfront, Roy’s offers a spectacular array of Hawaiian-fusion delicacies for guests to enjoy while taking in the stunning sights of the marina.
Salt Drift Pointe
536 13th St #1, Imperial Beach, CA 91932
Salt Drift Pointe can accommodate up to 300 guests, it provides clean, modern indoor spaces with rolling windows that open onto a deck overlooking a historic salt pond and the expansive San Diego bay. The venue also offers a curated list of unique vendors including food trucks that can roll up right to the reception.
Dress to Impress at South Coast Plaza
3333 Bristol Street, Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Southern California’s gorgeous, nearly perfect weather means more than just the ideal conditions for your big day-it means the wedding fashion options are endless! From strapless sweetheart cocktail dresses to backless Hollywood style gowns to demure lace frocks, the San Diego bride has more sartorial freedom than most and plenty of outlets for finding a flawless look. For a one-stop-shop for all things bridal, look no further than Irvine’s South Coast Plaza. A hop, skip, and a jump up the 5 Freeway, South Coast Plaza has a multitude of shops with everything from jewelry to designer dresses, to tuxes for the groom. Walk down the aisle in style without the hassle of driving all over town.
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