Unhinged, A Dating Series: Dating Trends You’ll See in 2025
Here’s how the search for love will shift in the coming year, according to experts
Finding Catharsis at Murrieta Hot Springs Resort
An escape an hour outside of SD pushes spa-goers out of their comfort zone—and into relaxation and release
10 Stunning Places to Propose in San Diego
The most romantic locations to pop the question in America’s Finest City
Unhinged, A Dating Series: Consensual Non-Monogamy
No matter your dating preferences, polyamory can offer valuable lessons on how to date and love others well
Unhinged, A Dating Series: The Fear of Losing Yourself to Love
Guest columnist and staff writer Danielle Allaire shares how a singles mixer led to an unexpected connection and some personal revelations on commitment
Painting at the Plate
After throwing a historic no-hitter, Padres pitcher Dylan Cease proves life is all about balance
Unhinged, A Dating Series: Pain, Shame, & Redemption
Columnist Nicolle Monico reflects on a toxic relationship—and the wonder of finding something so much better
One of the World’s Fastest-Growing Digital Agencies is in SD
The founders of CourtAvenue discuss their quick rise to the top and what the future holds for the international company
Poets Turn a City Heights Street into Interactive Art
With Memoria Terra, artist Shinpei Takeda and five young writers consider the area’s ongoing gentrification
Unhinged, A Dating Series: Dating Women When You Don’t “Look Gay”
Lesbian writer and SDM editor Amelia Rodriguez takes over the column this week to offer tips for combatting the dreaded femme invisibility
Unhinged, A Dating Series: I’ve Never Been in a Relationship
Adults without dating experience often face stigma, but the single life brings unique benefits
Unhinged, A Dating Series: Love & Ambition
Does being a successful career woman really hurt your dating prospects—or is men “marrying down” a myth?
The Best Cosplay from San Diego Comic-Con 2024
From capes and spandex to homemade props and wild gadgets, these are our favorite looks
Stone Brewing Founder Makes Wild Heavy Metal Graphic Novel & Album
The first of nine graphic novel origin stories for Metal Warrior will be available at Comic-Con along with 7-inch vinyls from the intergalactic group
Unhinged, A Dating Series: No Time to Wait
Dating at an older age can sometimes put pressure on couples to shorten their timeline toward marriage and kids
The Belly Up Celebrates 50 Years with 50 Summer Shows
Founded in 1974, the Solana Beach venue has welcomed major names—and some half-million visitors—during its five-decade history
Unhinged, A Dating Series: Singles Are Ditching Apps for In-Person Events
As daters prioritize IRL hangouts, event companies and clubs are helping meet demand
Jakob Nowell Is Not Sublime’s Frontman
Raised in San Diego, Bradley Nowell’s son returns home with his father’s band on July 20
Remembering Joan Jacobs’ Legacy
Irwin Jacobs reflects on his life together with his wife of 70 years
Meet ICA San Diego’s 2024 NextGen Artists
The institute’s annual program provides exhibition opportunities and professional development to seven local grads
San Diego Animal Shelters Are Severely Overcrowded
The “why” behind the crisis—and how you can help
Unhinged: Can a Bad Relationship Make You a Bad Friend?
The toll on our friendships is an under-discussed aspect of being in a toxic relationship
Unhinged, A Dating Series: The Cringiest Dating Stories in SD
We asked our Instagram followers to share their worst experiences while trying to find love in the city—their answers didn’t disappoint
How San Diego is Rebuilding Its Fading Beaches
Meet the dredge responsible for sandy summers in North County
Unhinged, A Dating Series: You’ll Find it When You Stop Looking
Calling BS on the myth that you can only get into a relationship if you aren’t trying
Unhinged, A Dating Series: Q&A With Columnist Nicolle Monico
In part two of editor Mateo Hoke’s conversation with the OB local, the two talk about what it takes to be ready for love
