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Executive editor Mateo Hoke breaks down the magazine's California issue highlighting the best the Golden State has to offer
Each summer, one of our colleagues here at the office brings in these huge, opulent avocados from a tree at her mom’s house in Poway. They are the stuff of legend. Rich, velvety grenades. On the day they ripen, I know I can never leave California, no matter what comes. I, like so many, am a hostage to the produce.
But it’s not just the guacamole that keeps us here. There’s something in the air. Or maybe the water. Or maybe it’s in the redwoods and bristlecone pines, still holding secrets from a time before California was California. Whatever it is, it’s magnetic, pulling people in and refusing to let them go. On September 9th, California turns 175 (a dodransbicentennial, I’m told). How many people has the state lured during those years? Today, one in eight Americans calls this place home, drawn by gold-plated potential that has captivated dreamers for generations: the Gold Rush, Hollywood, Silicon Valley. California is a grand casino, a promise built on luck, myth, and mirage. A fata morgana of West Coast Americana, full of paradox, power, and heartbreak. There is no other place like this on Earth.
Ingenuity runs hot here. This is the birthplace of blue jeans, skateboards, electric guitars, Barbie dolls, and iPhones—not to mention the whole damn internet and probably your favorite movies, music, and trashy TV. Standing back, it feels like there’s nothing California can’t do.
Our second annual California issue celebrates this spirit. We start with our food. Unparalleled. Straight from the water, the soil, the hands of seventh-generation farmers and culinary chemists. In honor of this bounty, we asked big-name chefs from around the state to tell us the restaurants and dishes they seek out when they’re on the road in CA. Consider it your bucket-list guide to California cuisine. As a complement, we also take you on a tour of the best wine destinations around the state. Together, these stories make the ultimate culinary road trip.
But you’ve gotta listen to something during those long hours on the highway and have the soundtrack for you. We tapped the top music minds from the top music venues, record stores, and radio stations throughout the state to give us their picks for the next big thing in California’s music scene. The state’s bands have a track record for defining generations, so we wanted to hear what’s next. The result is an up-and-coming Golden State mixtape that you can tune into while you explore.
Of course, even in a state where all things edible and audible shine and every autumn sunset is an album cover, we are not without our troubles. The California dream of yesterday faces hard limits today. Drought tightens its grip, housing teeters between aspiration and crisis, and the threat of fire remains top of mind. Wildfires, we know, no longer arrive as an exception—they come year-round.
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So, in this issue, we explore how SoCal innovators are building smarter, safer housing for a future in which fire season doesn’t end. The story shows how California is again facing crises with reinvention, as we have throughout the last century and three quarters and will for the next.
We hope this issue helps you feel connected to a larger sense of home—avocado handcuffs and all.
Mateo Hoke is a journalist and author. His books include Six by Ten: Stories from Solitary, and Palestine Speaks: Narratives of Life Under Occupation.
Local Hannah Shaw has spent nearly two decades giving pre-adoption-age felines a fighting chance
It’s always kitten season in San Diego.
This doesn’t sound like a problem (cute babies!), but for Hannah “Kitten Lady” Shaw, it’s a big issue—one she’s dedicated her life to solving.
“I moved to San Diego in 2018 because it is a very special place for kitten welfare,” says Shaw, who has lived all over the country. “All along the southern border of the US is where we see the most kittens coming in. At many animal shelters, the policy is to euthanize any kitten under eight weeks, [or adoption age].

National statistics for 2025 show that, of all the cats dying in shelters, 58 percent are pre-adoption-age. “That’s because they can’t stay in the shelter overnight,” Shaw explains. “They’re dependent on around-the-clock care, and most shelters don’t provide that.”
If you’re shocked to hear that young kittens are often euthanized, you’re experiencing the same emotion that set Shaw on a new path. Seventeen years ago, after rescuing a neonatal kitten from a tree, she called a friend who worked at a shelter, only to learn that the little one likely wouldn’t make it there.

“I found it horrifying, and I ended up adopting her,” she recalls. “I started finding kittens everywhere and caring for them. People started calling me and saying, ‘Hey, are you that kitten lady?’”
A few years later, Shaw began developing relationships with shelters. At that time, foster programs didn’t exist in the way they do now, so her idea was to be able to take home neonates and raise them to adoption age, only to be bowled over by the sheer volume of kittens arriving on a near-daily basis.
“We have over one million of these kittens coming into shelters every year,” she says. “It was incredibly overwhelming. I couldn’t look away, but I also couldn’t do it all myself,” Shaw says. She started teaching everyone in her network to become fosters: friends, neighbors, colleagues of friends of friends.

“Eventually, I was like, ‘Maybe I’ll make a couple little videos, so I don’t have to keep repeating myself,’” she adds. This was the early days of YouTube; it was little more than a video hosting site where Shaw could send a quick link to neonate newbies. Nevertheless, views started climbing—1,000, then 10,000—as strangers shared her content. “It was people just like me who found kittens and were realizing that the animal shelter couldn’t help them,” she says. “They wanted to care for them and needed to learn how to do that.”
Nowadays, Shaw’s online presence is enormous, with more than four million followers across all her channels. For a decade, saving kittens has been her full-time career: She speaks at conferences and other events, produces a massive volume of educational materials, and has written 11 books, all with the goal of making animal lovers aware of the huge problem these tiny cats face—and how they can help.
For the everyday person, that looks like working with local organizations including San Diego’s Feral Cat Coalition to trap, spay or neuter, and release strays (“community cats,” as Shaw calls them) to reduce the number of animals born each year. And, of course, the most direct way to save kitten lives is to foster. “Any of us can put some kittens in our bathroom for three weeks, and that could be the reason that they survive,” Shaw affirms.

In 2016, Shaw built another platform for supporting pre-adoption-age cats: Orphan Kitten Club, a nonprofit that turns donations into lifesaving programs, research, and grants. “If a shelter doesn’t have supplies, we fund supplies. If it doesn’t have a physical space [for neonate kittens], we fund a physical space,” she explains. “We even fund kitten-focused staff members.”
The club’s grants have provided surgeries for cats born with congenital defects or impacted by injuries—and inspired other shelters to perform the same operations on animals whose cases were previously considered hopeless. To date, the organization has given out over $4 million.

While the stats she shares are heartbreaking, Shaw’s socials also constantly highlight the stories of cats who got their second chance. There’s Avery, a tiny “tripod” who found love at first sight with her foster parent’s mom. And Freebie, who was saved after someone posted her in a “Buy Nothing” Facebook group when she was just three weeks old. And Maxine, who arrived at an SD shelter in a maxi pad box—her story went mega-viral, and now she’s inspiring people all over the country to take in babies just like her.
It helps that Shaw and Orphan Kitten Club tend to post some pretty gorgeous pictures of the kittens, thanks in part to Andrew “The Cat Photographer” Marttila, Shaw’s husband. The two met in 2016.
“A friend told me about his work—they said, ‘Oh, you gotta follow this guy’s Instagram; he’s a professional cat photographer.’ I was like, ‘That’s the craziest-sounding job ever, other than professional kitten educator,’” Shaw remembers. “We ended up arranging to do a photo shoot of some kittens. Now, we’ve been together for almost a decade.” Shaw and Marttila married in April 2023 at Farm Animal Refuge in Campo, where their rescue pig served as ringbearer.

Recently, the couple got the opportunity to combine their talents for Cats of the World, their 2024 book featuring photos and tales of kitties from 30 countries. The project took several years to complete. “The most profound thing that I learned from it is that there’s really not a corner of the Earth that doesn’t have somebody taking compassionate action for animals,” Shaw says. “Even on the most remote island [or] rural part of the world—it doesn’t matter where you go; there are cats everywhere, and there are people being kind to cats.
I didn’t think I would find myself on the back of a motorcycle going around India with people who grew up really, really differently than I did, but who share this love of cats. There’s a softening that can happen when you realize that there are a lot of different ways to be a loving and compassionate person in the world.”

Shaw models many of those ways herself: In between traveling, filming, and running a nonprofit, she still somehow finds time to personally foster high-needs kittens, in addition to caring for her own six rescue pets. Orphan Kitten Club’s programs have impacted more than 88,000 cats.
“Each of these individuals is one in a million, but they’re also all one of a million, and I can’t personally put my hands on one million kittens. That’s the harder and heavier thing for me,” Shaw says. “But sadness is a motivator. We get to see these amazing transformations and know that every kitten has so much potential to be somebody’s best friend.”
Amelia Rodriguez is a writer and journalist and winner of the San Diego Press Club's 2023 Rising Star Award and 2024 Best of Show Award, she’s also covered music, food, arts and culture, fashion, and design for Rolling Stone, Palm Springs Life, and other national and regional publications. After work, you can find her hunting down San Diego’s best pastries and maintaining her five-year Duolingo streak.
After 18 years and 20 Broadway-bound premieres, the artistic director leaves behind a lasting legacy
Christopher Ashley is a failed child actor, a former computer programmer, and a Yale alum. He’s also San Diego’s Hal Prince. In 18 years as one of the most acclaimed artistic directors in the history of La Jolla Playhouse, he produced 20 world premieres that went on to Broadway, including Jesus Christ Superstar, The Outsiders, and the Idina Menzel–led Redwood. Now, he’s saying goodbye. It’s a formidable loss for the city’s underrated theater scene.
Following a lifetime of acting (poorly, he claims) in summer theater programs, Ashley switched to directing in high school. A successful New York theater career (the programming stint was just to pay off those Yale loans) eventually brought him to LJP in 2007. His tenure transformed the institution into a nationally acclaimed proving ground for fresh, fearless works.

“In the earlier incarnations of the playhouse, there was much more of a mix of revivals and new work. I have really leaned us into new work. We’ve done [57] world premieres in my time here,” he says. “Everybody at the playhouse really takes seriously the idea of the new and the next. Being a doula to new projects is really satisfying—I get to run a theater during a golden age of American writing for the theater.”

Central to that mission is the 12-year-old Without Walls (WOW) Festival, an annual spring showcase of site-specific and immersive performances. “We were on the leading edge of a kind of work that is starting to really take hold in America,” Ashley adds. “These shows really challenge the relationship between audience and artist. People go because they know it’s going to happen only tonight and never again. Theater offers community—[an opportunity] to come together to experience a story—and that feels more powerful in this moment than it ever has before.”

The sentiment is especially poignant in light of Ashley’s imminent return to New York as artistic director of Roundabout Theatre Company. But he’ll never forget his time here. “It’s the main chapter in my life,” he says. “I don’t know that San Diego gets quite the credit it deserves for what a great city for the arts it is.” Thanks to Ashley, though, it’s begun to receive its fair share of star billing.
Amelia Rodriguez is a writer and journalist and winner of the San Diego Press Club's 2023 Rising Star Award and 2024 Best of Show Award, she’s also covered music, food, arts and culture, fashion, and design for Rolling Stone, Palm Springs Life, and other national and regional publications. After work, you can find her hunting down San Diego’s best pastries and maintaining her five-year Duolingo streak.
San Diego almost had an ugly bridge—but with careful planning, the path to Coronado became an award-winning icon
San Diego’s epic, photogenic bridge was nearly an eyesore.
If earlier developers had succeeded, the Coronado Bridge would’ve been a mass of chunky, criss-crossed trusses and trestles jutting into our view of San Diego Bay, scarring the skyline with industrial steel. But serendipitous delays (and firm resistance from a local architect) changed the plans.
The idea for a vehicle crossing to Coronado goes back to 1926, when magnate John D. Spreckels proposed a bridge to ease travel to his money-making properties. The War Department shot it down, citing possible interruption to naval activities. In 1928, developers obtained permits for a subaqueous tube; the Depression kept that at bay. The Coronado City Council floated the bridge idea again in 1935. Once more, Navy opposition promptly sunk it. Would it block ships sailing out to sea from South Bay? Would it collapse in an earthquake and strand the fleet? An admiral testified that Navy dollars would cease to flow into San Diego if the bridge came to pass.

The State of California revived the Coronado crossing idea in 1955. Bridges for autos were going up all over the state. The Navy finally got on board, with the deal-clincher that the bridge’s height allowed enough vertical clearance for aircraft carriers. The USS Midway, the tallest carrier at the time, was 222 feet from keel to highest point. To meet the height requirement, bridge designers eventually devised the now-famous curve—worked out one afternoon with a few pushpins and a piece of string. But as the bridge concept took its first steps forward in decades, its now-award-winning design was still a twinkle in an architect’s eye.
The state’s architectural plans from 1957 show harsh-angled beams and legs marring the Coronado crossing, out of place against the gently sloping shoreline and gentle waves of the bay. Coronado residents balked, bringing lawsuits as the possibility of a bridge became concrete. It threatened the peninsula’s scenic beauty and tranquil quality of life. On the San Diego side, the planned bridge landing cut through historic Barrio Logan.

James R. Mills, San Diego representative from 1960 to 1982, opposed the bridge on behalf of his townsfolk. “Like me, most of them wanted their town to stay as it was, and they loved the ferry boats, which had been running to and fro across the bay since 1886,” Mills wrote in a 2009 op-ed.
In 1961, Mills voted “no” on a state budget that “surreptitiously” slipped in a bond measure to finance the bridge. On the day of the decision, “people were scurrying around the floor handing out envelopes with thousands of dollars of cash to those who would vote for it,” Senator Mills later told his friend, Coronado author and historian Joe Ditler.
Those greenbacks likely came from John Alessio (the “A” in Mister A’s), Hotel del Coronado owner and big-money contributor to California Governor Edmund “Pat” Brown.
“‘John Alessio wants that bridge. He bought the Hotel del Coronado with the land south of it so he could make a lot of money by selling that vacant land for a high-rise residential development, and that will only happen if a bridge is built,’” a colleague told Mills, as Mills later recalled in the op-ed. “[And] if John wants that bridge, Pat [Brown] wants it.’” It passed by one vote.

Though resistance couldn’t stop the bridge, delays worked out in San Diego’s favor. Coincidentally, a few years prior to the bridge’s green-lighting, Governor Brown had instituted a new program: Every state bridge project would have an architect consultant to ensure “no more ugly bridges”—his response to Bay area residents who objected to the industrial-looking Richmond—San Rafael Bridge in 1956. The Coronado Bridge was the second built under this mandate.
Yet even the bridge’s designer, local architect Robert Mosher, initially called the idea “nuts.” Mosher (who studied with Frank Lloyd Wright and founded San Diego’s oldest architectural firm, Mosher Drew) worried about “ruining” Coronado Island. Nevertheless, Mosher’s longtime colleague Larry Hoeksema told SDM, he accepted the job and made every effort to “take care of all the aesthetic components: the color, the curve, the arches, the graceful line.”

When Mosher came aboard in the mid-1960s, the open-trestle design from 1957 was still the top contender. “The design was strikingly similar to that of the hated San Rafael– Richmond Bridge,” Mosher reflected in his writings.
So Mosher and a team of state engineers came up with a new proposal: closed box girders (horizontal support beams tucked under the bridge) for a neater look and a new, German-patented orthotropic design to eliminate towering trusses. Mosher added graceful arches below to echo San Diego’s mission-style architecture. The sides were purposely low to give drivers the best view. Then came the curve.

But Mosher’s ribbon-esque, elegant new design wasn’t a shoo-in. The plans came within inches of rejection by the state committee for “budget concerns.” As Mosher tells it, he threatened to alert the press (he had friends at both the Union and San Diego Magazine) that the state—contrary to the governor’s promise—had doomed San Diego to an unattractive bridge. The state opted to save face; Mosher’s team found ways to meet that budget.
“Instead of just a crossing, we wanted to make the event of crossing enjoyable,” Mosher told a reporter following the design’s public unveiling. “Going across the bridge will be equally as interesting in its 20th-century way as the ferry is. It’s going to be fun.”

Construction finally began in 1967, with a price tag of $45 million (almost $450 million in 2025 dollars). Workers drove 487 concrete piles 100 feet into the mucky bottom of the bay and put up 30 arches. The 215-ton steel box girders were fabricated in San Francisco, shipped to San Diego, and hoisted into place with a barge-mounted crane. All told, building the bridge took two years; 94,000 cubic yards of concrete; 20,000 tons of steel; and 43,000 gallons of paint.

Mosher had to fight for his finishing touch, too: the distinct blue paint that blends hues from the sky and bay. Rust-proof red was the default for bridges over water, Hoeksema says, but Mosher reminded the team that “ugly” was not an option.
Historian Ditler moved to Coronado in 1967, as a teenager, and watched the bridge take shape. He and his buddies “thought the whole thing was ridiculous,” he says.

That didn’t stop them from riding the last midnight ferry (service ceased from 1969 to 1986) and being “the first hitchhikers,” he adds, to cross the new bridge when it opened on August 2, 1969.
In the back of an MG with a happily stoned couple in the front, “we sat on the convertible top that had been folded over the back seat,” he recalls. “Like being in a parade, we drove over that big, scary bridge, waving at everyone we saw.”
Leorah Gavidor won her first essay contest at age 5. She writes features, news, and non-fiction in San Diego.
Stake Chophouse & Bar brings contemporary classics and old-school service to the heart of Coronado
Stake Chophouse & Bar isn’t your average steakhouse. Blue Bridge Hospitality’s Coronado outpost is a modern interpretation of a big-city steakhouse nestled in the heart of the small coastal community. The team at Stake has reimagined the whole steakhouse experience. By prioritizing a seasonal farm-to-table sourcing philosophy, a personalized guest experience, and unique service touches, like a formal steak presentation and a bespoke knife selection process, Stake distinguishes itself in a sea of steakhouses.
Exceptional steaks, including Wagyu from Japan, Australia, and the U.S., and fresh seafood flown in daily form the core of Stake’s culinary identity. The menu features a five-course omakase-style steak experience highlighting house favorites, plus an array of cuts, and classic steakhouse staples—think a wedge salad, baked potato, or pasta carbonara—refined for a contemporary palate without losing their traditional appeal. Stake focuses on seasonal sourcing from the region’s best family farms and specialty purveyors, and incorporates intentionally unexpected touches to create something truly unique.
“I challenge our chefs and myself to take it a step further in sourcing,” says Chef Ronnie Schwandt. “It’s important to us to highlight different farms, unique one-off farms—whether it’s cattle, strawberries, a local fisherman or from anywhere in the United States, we’re always trying to find that niche.”
Beyond the menu, Stake emphasizes outstanding service, says Vinny Spatafore, Director of Hospitality Operations. Staff maintains detailed notes, allowing them to remember guests by name, recall previous orders such as a favorite martini (also memorable for the customer since it’s served in an extra tall, distinctly-shaped glass), and celebrate special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries.
“When you have those points of topic that you remember about a guest, they appreciate that,” he says. “Our servers are really good with that—we have a couple servers who have been here since the beginning and they’ll remember somebody from years ago, their name, their kids’ names, where they live. I’m really thankful to have a great front of house staff.”
Award-winning wines, rare whiskeys, special events, and a complementary black car service that provides transportation for guests throughout Coronado add to Stake’s appeal.
Schwandt stresses that Stake offers more than a meal; they aim to give patrons something unforgettable.
“It starts when you walk up the stairs and are greeted by the hostess—that sets the tone for the night. Then you’re greeted by a server, who may know you by name, and can guide you through the menu and curate as they get to know you,” says Schwandt. “Most people leave kind of blown away; they leave feeling like they just had an experience. That’s the goal, right? Whether you’re serving smash burgers or high-end steak, you want somebody to leave thinking, Wow, that was awesome.”
The Julian sanctuary aims to protect a vanishing species and educate the public about their vital role in the ecosystem
Tucked away on the outskirts of Julian, just a few miles from antique shops and apple pie, is an organization fighting to protect one of the world’s most misunderstood predators.
In 1977, Paul and Judy Kenis opened the Julian Center for Science and Education, now called the California Wolf Center. They and their original pair of northwestern gray wolves set out to educate the public about wolves and their vital role in the ecosystem. Over the years, additional passionate people signed on, and the movement grew into a mission to create a future in which wolves and humans can safely coexist.
“What inspires me most about this work is seeing how understanding transforms fear to awe and respect,” says Christine Barton, executive director of the California Wolf Center. “When people experience these animals up close, it changes the way they think about wolves and wildness, the balance in nature, and our shared responsibility to protect them.”

There was once a time when wolves were common in California. However, the nomadic predators got a bad rap as a danger to people and livestock, and by the 1920s, wolves were wiped out statewide. The stigma endured for generations, and by the time the California Wolf Center was founded, just 13 of the Mexican gray wolf subspecies were left in the wild.
Though wolves have returned to Northern California, notably starting with an animal called OR-7, who journeyed south from Oregon in 2011, they remain on the state’s endangered species list.
The California Wolf Center has taken a proactive approach to helping the species recover. The organization has been a part of the Association of Zoos and Aquariums’ SAFE (Saving Animals From Extinction) program since 1997. The goal is to increase genetic diversity among the Mexican gray wolf population so more can be reintroduced to the wild. To date, 85 Mexican wolf pups have been born at the facility in the Cuyamaca Mountains. Of the 60 institutions in US and Mexico that participate in the AZA SAFE program, the California Wolf Center is among the top three with regards to the number of Mexican wolves in human care.
The California Wolf Center factors in the human side of the equation, too, working with nonprofits and government agencies to support wolf recovery with cross-fostering, range riders, and field volunteers. It also collaborates with communities throughout the Southwest who share their environment with the returning wolf population, providing information on and financial support for techniques that ranchers can use to reduce wolf-livestock conflict.
“We are one of only a very few organizations that, by raising funds through our Mexican wolf conservation program, donate directly to supporting ranchers and the communities living with Mexican gray wolves in the wild,” Barton says. “It’s important to us to help ranchers and communities, as well as the wolves, because we all have to live together. We supply non-lethal deterrents and fund education efforts to teach practical coexistence solutions on how to peacefully live with Mexican gray wolves in the wild [so] not just wolves can thrive, but the ranchers and communities that share the landscape with them thrive, too.”

Though conservation groups have made progress in restoring wolf populations over the years, there are only around 286 Mexican gray wolves in the wild in Arizona and New Mexico (no Mexican wolves currently live outside of captivity in California). Conservation efforts still face challenges. Genetic diversity among Mexican gray wolves is limited and, unfortunately, habitat loss and human-caused mortality continue to be issues.
A vital part of the California Wolf Center’s mission is changing perceptions by educating the public about the important role these keystone predators play in the ecosystem. Through education and outreach, center staff emphasize that without apex predators like wolves, environmental systems begin to fall out of equilibrium.
“One of the main things we do is teach about the balance of nature, and the shared responsibility to protect it,” Barton says. A handful of the center’s lupine residents act as ambassadors, and five others are shown to the public locally—the California Wolf Center offers guided public, private, and school tours of the facility. The center’s remaining wolf population is not on display. Instead, the animals on the property live in large acre habitats.
“We work hard to bridge the gap between conservation goals and community realities through collaboration, education, and transparency. We welcome visitors to learn about these incredible animals—Mexican gray wolves and the northwestern wolves that reside right here in California,” Barton says. “We share and educate on how conservation connects directly to healthy landscapes and communities.”
The center also welcomes volunteers and interns who are interested in hands-on experience and knowledge. Some volunteers train with the center’s educational staff. Others who are not so comfortable getting up close and personal with the wolves or their habitat work in the offsite visitor center and nature store in downtown Julian. Interns who are pursuing a career in wildlife conservation, biology, or other life science fields collaborate with staff members to care for the center’s 21 resident wolves and interact with visitors.
The California Wolf Center is currently aiming to expand its programs and facilities to engage even more people in wolf recovery and ecosystem conservation, Barton says.
“We’re now looking ahead to an exciting new chapter at the California Wolf Center,” she adds. “We want to fulfill the need in San Diego to want to make an even bigger impact for wolves and wild places, not just with Mexican wolves in New Mexico and Arizona, but with our wolves and wildlife right here in California. I’m really looking forward to sharing that journey with everyone—whether it’s through our programs or educational efforts or by simply helping people connect with nature in a meaningful way.”
But they can’t do it alone. It takes collaboration between different agencies, facilities, and organizations, along with support from the public.
“The strength of our mission lies in community—staff, volunteers, partners, and supporters all play a crucial role,” Barton says. “We want to see wolves and other wildlife be here for many, many years to come.”
Sarah Sapeda is San Diego Magazine’s Custom Content Editor. In her 15 years in San Diego journalism, she has covered charitable events, health care, education, crime, current events, and more.
By removing childcare and custody barriers, the McAlister Institute's treatment program offers a different path to rehabilitation
It’s an in-between moment at the Kiva Learning Center for Women and Children in Lemon Grove. The banana-yellow slide of a small jungle gym brightens up the misty day outside, waiting for the charming bedlam of kids set loose to play. In the doorway of the center’s onsite daycare, a mom calls her children’s names, and they come tumbling out to join her. Operations Manager Michelle DeForrest studies a rainbow of small handprints, each marked with a name and date, on the wall just outside.
“I’d wanted to do this for a long time,” she says. “It’s what this program stands for.”
In 1981, Jeanne McAlister asked a question that would change thousands of lives: What are the barriers women struggling with addiction face when seeking treatment?
One of the biggest: There were very, very few recovery centers that let women stay with their kids. So, McAlister created Kiva, the county’s first treatment facility to do just that. “Being able to have kids up to 12 years old come here, where they’re able to go to school [and access] childcare onsite, it’s just been a beautiful thing,” DeForrest says. The center accommodates up to 25 children at any given time.

Founded in 1977, the McAlister Institute has 23 other recovery-related programs, but Kiva is especially focused on the unique needs and challenges of women. In addition to a daycare, there’s a donor-funded “bonding room” where new mothers can be alone with their babies for the first few weeks of life. Vocational training creates employment opportunities for residents who may have never worked before.
“Parenting skills are a big part of the program,” DeForrest explains. “We have case managers that help connect [clients] with a primary care physician and a mental health [provider]. We offer education groups that help clients understand addiction, as well as closed, private groups where we [discuss] seeking safety [from domestic] violence, overcoming grief and loss. We get to help deal with some of these core issues of why women use to begin with.”

DeForrest understands clients’ experiences intimately, since she, like many McAlister Institute staff members, is a graduate herself.
“The minute I walked in that door [at Kiva], something was different,” she recalls. “I was done, I was tired, and I was ready. And I remember looking out at the women going, ‘Holy shit.’ Because it is very, very overwhelming when you’re so broken, and you walk into this room full of women, and they’re laughing. They’re smiling. There are kids playing; they’re having a warm meal. I remember feeling ready to just turn and run, and there was this one lady that smiled at me and said, ‘Come eat with me.’ And that made the difference.”
Her ability to relate to what residents are going through has made a similar impact for people like Brittany Brooks, who entered the facility after DeForrest had recovered and become a counselor. “I was in a relationship with somebody that had previous addiction problems, and so I got introduced to that life that way, and shortly after became pregnant with my first son,” Brooks remembers. “I had to fight with wanting to use and also wanting to be a mom, which is something that I always dreamed of doing.”
Years of challenges followed. She was in and out of Kiva, struggling to maintain custody of her son. “Although I didn’t stay clean that [first] time, that was where the seed was planted,” she adds. At the start of the pandemic, Brooks developed a blood infection from IV drug use. It turned into sepsis, and she had to have emergency open-heart surgery.

Through the pain, she wondered, “‘What happens to my son if I’m gone?’” she says. “I started going back to meetings. I started reconnecting with the people that once helped me save my life, and I just never looked back.” Brooks had another child and, after managing two supermarkets, is in the process of opening her own. She celebrated five years of sobriety on October 2.
“I was able to do that because I learned so many tools here,” she adds. “This is so much more than just a rehab. You learn how to live life, you know? There are people that have walked the same struggles as you and come out the other side, and that gives you hope.”

Residents at Kiva often begin their stay in the nine-bed detox center, which is exclusive to women to ensure trauma related to sharing space with men doesn’t impact the clients’ healing. Afterward, they move on to the 111-bed main facility, where they pass their days attending groups; adjusting to employment in roles like kitchen and laundry service or at the front desk; and, if they have their kids onsite, spending lunchtime and evenings with their little ones. It’s a 30- to 90-day program, but clients can request a 30-day extension as needed.
In the dining room, a wall of big block letters reads, WHO I AM MAKES A DIFFERENCE. Here, that belief starts small: When you work in the kitchen, Michelle explains, you realize, “‘If I don’t show up for my shift, they don’t get their coffee. And if they don’t get their coffee, we have a house full of cranky women.’ You start seeing those little things, and then you start feeling like you matter. And then you have purpose. And when you have purpose, you fight longer and harder.”
Amelia Rodriguez is a writer and journalist and winner of the San Diego Press Club's 2023 Rising Star Award and 2024 Best of Show Award, she’s also covered music, food, arts and culture, fashion, and design for Rolling Stone, Palm Springs Life, and other national and regional publications. After work, you can find her hunting down San Diego’s best pastries and maintaining her five-year Duolingo streak.
sometimes, even us sun-soaked San Diegans need a getaway of our own. Fortunately, unforgettable experiences are just a short trip away.
It’s hard to think of two words that go together better than summer and vacation. Every summer, visitors flock to San Diego to explore our breathtaking beaches and awesome attractions—and who could blame them?
But sometimes, even us sun-soaked San Diegans need a getaway of our own. Fortunately, unforgettable experiences abound, around the world and in our own backyard.
This guide will help you pick the perfect summer escape. Want even more ideas? Check out the Central Coast’s tourism guide here.
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Relax and unwind at Ventura’s seaside Ventura Harbor Village for waterfront treats, fresh seafood, patio dining, coastal shops, artisans, pampering, dive trips, live music, and fun rentals on the water! Walk from Ventura Harbor hotels to scenic beaches, Ventura Harbor Village, and Channel Islands National Park Visitor Center. SEA you SEAside! venturaharborvillage.com
Solvang
Solvang’s walkable village is brimming with wine tasting rooms and bars, museums, galleries, independently owned shops, and restaurants helmed by Michelin-level chefs. Architecture reminiscent of Northern Europe frames Danish-pastry-filled itineraries. Spot the Little Mermaid, chase windmills, brush up on Hans Christian Andersen’s fairy tales— then live one of your own. What’s your Solvang story? Solvangusa.com
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The super-splashy Water Oasis in Gilroy Gardens is the coolest place to play in Gilroy—but there’s lots more to see and do in the Garlic Capital of the World. Enjoy wine tasting, outlet shopping, golfing, hiking, and more. Visitgilroy.com
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Ventura is your portal to life-changing adventure. The closest of the five islands of Channel Islands National Park are just a 70-minute boat ride from Ventura Harbor, and they offer the wild glory you’d expect from one of America’s least visited national parks. “The Galapagos of North America”? Better. visitventura.com
Paso Robles
Escape to the majestic vineyards, oak-dotted hills, and small-town charm of Paso Robles. It’s where world-class food and wine meet small-town cowboy charm, and it boasts endless lodging options, from historic inns and luxury resorts to rustic vineyard escapes. Recently named a “must-visit region” by the New York Times. travelpaso.com
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It’s all here waiting for you—a gentle climate, where sand, sun, sea, and sky converge to create the ideal getaway. California’s golden past is alive and well in Pismo Beach. Visit experiencepismobeach.com to book your stay. experiencepismobeach.com
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Escape to an inspiring place with striking coastline, secluded redwood forests, and a culinary scene as diverse as the landscape. Now is the moment to embrace the unexpected adventures and natural beauty of Monterey County. Why wait? Plan your trip and join us here. Seemonterey.com
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Discover a gentle crescent of California coast where the sea and mountains meet, the sun feels more golden, and the valleys overflow with a bounty of color. Santa Barbara offers exhilarating outdoor adventure, fascinating arts and culture, an incredible variety of local food and wine, and more. santabarbaraca.com
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#SkipTheBigCities and head to Buellton, nestled in the Sta. Rita Hills wine region, where you’ll also enjoy feeding an ostrich, horseback riding, taking a stroll through the botanic garden, or enjoying the collection at Mendenhall’s Museum of Gasoline Pumps and Petroliana. You’ll find accommodations for all budgets, including “glamping.” discoverbuellton.com